Well last day of nursery and it all went wrong .
Ever have a picture in your head about how things will go? . I do and it never goes the way I hoped. Gary , my husband, says I am idealistic. I like to think I am positive with a bit of magic lol. It started with a tantrum because ……. she woke up . Thats my conclusion anyway as not one thing happened before that and my eyes hadnt even opened yet.
she then wouldnt get dressed with out a lot of “get dressed now before we are late” shouted at her . I was tired before even getting to nursery .
She went in fine but complained about the hat I made as it didnt fit and she didnt like it and she didnt want to wear it . SIGHHHHH
The parents were to go back at 10:30 for a little tea party and when I went in she come running up all smiles . I gave her a bit hug and she then said I WANT CHOCOLATE ( the chocolate we made) but I didnt know where anything was as its not MY nursery ha ha . That resulted in tears and the teachers asking “whats wrong April” it ends up the chocolates were out in the kid room and she was free to get them but ‘couldnt’ with out me . So there I am feeling very uncomfortable wandering around the nursery with the shy crying child (let it be known she is not shy any other time at nursery or at home) She then ‘demands ‘ crisps which I said no and was starting to get annoyed with the spoilt child in the room, and annoyed it was my child .
She didnt take part in the first half of the games they did and instead just cried. I now wished I hadnt bothered.
Second half she did take part and I felt like a breakthrough . The end came and we left with april crying bcause she couldnt find the hat she made. You know the one she hated and wouldnt wear.
I wanted to start a tradition that at the end of every school year she got a balloon but now I was stuck between the tradition not getting started and spoiling an already spoilt child . We picked up daddy and I ranted to him about my day and then got to the balloon shop for a successful balloon purchase.
Its now half 7 and April is in bed, the balloon is burst and in the bin (child stamped on it) and mummy is opening some wine. Dont judge . Tomorrow is a new day . Thankfully
Here are some of the better pictures….hiding the bad parts of the day (pictures are good at that )
I cannot believe tomorrow is your last day at nursery for the summer. It has been great seeing you change when at nursery and also weird knowing you have a little life outside mummy and daddys world, and its just yours. However its all part of growing up and I am so very proud of you and the way you have excepted the challenge.
You only started January due to your age, but the six months have seen you grow with confidence and courage. You go with such confidence and you have made friends of your very own.
Its all new to me and your dad and we are trying to go with the flow with what happens and whats expected and try to show an interest and be part of each step when we can (allowed lol , the control freak momma has to have a step back )
Our first summer break and we will have lots of fun adventures I promise ( we couldnt stay in with your energy ) The entire week I have thought about you leaving for holiday and had to keep reminding myself that you are the one off for 6 weeks not mommy lol. I wish it was me.
This week I have managed to be on top form with organising . I have done sweets for the teachers , wrote a letter to your little friends mum about meeting up over the holidays (sadly she hasnt text me but at least I can say I tried) and sorted your Mad Hatter hat for your party tomorrow
Today I rushed home (after a very long day ) and we made chocolate shapes for you party tomorrow too . It wasnt too easy with you as my assistant this time around and there wasnt much concentration being had with the mad singing you were doing lol but we did it in the end .
I have your blackboard ready for tomorrow and I am loving that I can be part of your life and make the events as special as I can .
Wishing you the best last day my gorgeous girl and a fun summer break with mama and dada .
Love you to the moon and back . xx
April is three but its a digital world for her since her birth . She has seen us use our phones for just about everything and soon we seen her copy the ‘swiping’ action before she could even stand on her own. The ipad was amazing for her as a baby as you have a lot of educational apps and videos on it and from a young age she would watch things to help with her eye coordination and hearing to name a few. It was a natural part of her world …..Sometimes I think that is sad and others I think its a very good thing IF USED CORRECTLY .
April found the youtube app on her own and managed (I dont know how) to discover the surprise opening videos herself . She gets limited time on the IPAD for watching things like this before moving on to an educational app that we do together (if she lets me) but nonetheless she likes youtube .
So I decided one day we would create our own youtube video that way she would have fun watching herself. I am quite a shy person and easy to hide behind the computer screen and this blog but I thought it would be fun ….. April took a little bit to get into it but then she was all pro at the end ….Have a watch.
We are very blessed to have a lot of sun at the moment. I love it. April and I are getting out and about a whole lot more. Parks and walks and mini adventure.
I always feel like we, as parents, spend so much time and money trying to entertain our little munchkins on rainy days. Toys, days out to soft play, dinners , cinema. The list is endless . Unlike our bank accounts. Sunny days are great for just getting out to parks and the beach and having fun without it costing much at all. Maybe just an icecream. Long may it last . xx
When I grew up we loved going to the fair or the shows as we would call it. So much fun and always felt massive.
Now I am taking my own little girl to the same one that visits every summer. In fact I think some are the same rides I went on HAHA
You can never be sad at the fair. Just look at how happy April is. Have you seen a bigger smile.
On another note. How expensive is it ?! I am lucky I only need to pay for one child. If you had 4/5 children that’s an expensive day out. However it’s something you have to do as a child . Always fun. Xx
Every year it changes and every child is different. With April only being three it feels like every year is new again . Like she hasnt seen sunny weather and all the fun that comes with it.
Summer is super exciting as lots of outdoor playing and lazing in the garden. Even the dog thinks so
There is nothing that little Missy doesn’t have (I feel bad that she has so much however most has been second hand) and yet still she needs entertained as much as she does. I have a question for you mommas out there …….. Is it an age thing ? do they play more when they are bigger?
Don’t get me wrong I love playing with her and realise she is only little for a small amount of time but I think it is good for them to use their imagination …… just to allow me a cup of tea on my own Ha Ha.
Our first sunny day here in Scotland. We always try to make the most of it as never know how much we are getting.
WE had a lovely BBQ, sand pit out and paddling pool was even out too. It took ages blowing up the paddling pool and getting hot water in ( a little hose water too ) Not sure what April was expecting but she stepped in it , and complained it was too cold before slipping and saying NO NO NO. What a girl .
We had fun and hope there is many many more this year
April is only in nursery and she has been singing Old Macdonald all week. When the weekend came and it was super sunny I thought it would be great to take her to a farm and see some of the animals. We don’t have many around but we have a very cute one not too far and it has a lovely shop too.
She was so excited to go and sang the nursery rhyme all the way . Too cute.
We looked round lots and she sang to each animal their part of the song . This age is very cute. We will def be back to this farm …… take a picnic next time I think xx
This is Aprils first make-up blog (just a bit of fun)
April says you need nothing else just a blush and lip stick. We use 100%pure (100percentpure.com) because its non toxic, natural and safe.
Starting on the lips ….you just need to go for it and circle round two times. This should make it last ALL day lol.
Then move on to the cheeks. This is where you need to put all your attention. Ensure that you push the stick in quite hard. Getting a good amount on there. Next do the same with the other cheek.
Then start working the cheek bones . Best to swipe big so you get it all.
Perfect now you are ready to move on to your hair and get dressed
Ha HA hope this brightened your day.
Love from APRIL xxx